“Ek tarfa Pyaar mein tum Roz jeete ho, aur roz haarte ho”, a well-written line yet the truth said by one of the greatest personalities has got all its answers about love, yes one-sided love. It is one of those emotions which can make someone go head to heels for their someone special despite knowing that the other person won’t reciprocate in the same way. This emotion is so special that the one experiencing it becomes so selfless without any expectations to put in all the efforts just to see their loved ones happy and always smiling. Despite so many people dealing with this misery, the main question is why do people do that? It is shocking to see a deep-rooted selfish human being who wouldn’t even initiate a step forward without any benefit in return becoming a generous individual in love: thoughtful and giving. But how can someone fall in love with someone who doesn’t reciprocate the same love? Well, don’t ask us, we don’t know. However, we have to agree that many call it a beautiful pain.
One can express its love in a million ways, however, Bollywood and music have given a different perception to one-sided love. It signifies one-sided love as a strength rather than a weakness. Indeed, different people look at it differently and learn from their experiences differently. A very famous line which gives a unique take to one-sided love is the dialogue from the movie Ae Dil hai Mushkil ( a dialogue which has made a separate level of the fan base): “Ek tarfa Pyaar ki Taaqat hi Kuch aur hoti hai, Auro ke rishton ki tarah ye do logo mein bat’ti, sirf mera haq hai ispe” beautifully written by the writer.
Similarly, some songs have the most beautiful lyrics for one-sided love, the ap test and accurate lines that hit us at the right spot are always remembered as a sign of unrequited love. “Kaise bataye, kyu tujhko chahe yaara bata na paaye”, a feeling felt by many but only expressed by some , the confusion of loving someone so selflessly and yet ending up getting hurt in the end. “Junoon hai mera , banu mein tere kabil , tere bina guzara , Ae dil hai mushkil”, we are so passionate that we always want to be perfect for the ones whom we love and in that pursuit we end up losing ourselves, this song is a reminder to lose yourself completely in love. One-sided lovers have this hidden excitement in not confessing their feelings to the people whom they love and secretly, showing affection for them and admiring them. Lyrics like, “ Hatheli pe tumhara naam likhte Hein mitate Hein , Tumhi se Pyaar karte Hein , Tumhi se hi Kyu chupate Hein’’, are correctly suitable for the hidden love of all the one sided lovers and lyrics like , “Sun mere humsafar , kya tujhe itni si bhi khabar”, and “Tum hi ho ab tum hi ho meri aashiqui ab tum hi ho’’ justify the passion of all the unrequited lovers.
Finding a solution for the sweet-bitter pain of one-sided love is something that many of them are searching for. But the reality here is there is no alternative, we as humans have no control of our feelings on someone. So all the unrequited lovers out there, we value and understand your emotions and have got you covered. Below attached is the playlist for all your emotions and feelings. Let us know if we missed any of your favorite songs.
